WHY THIS WHY

WHY 

This is the question , one has to face all their life and in all endeavours, whether you sit idle at home or being president of USA or interviewed for civil services. However , According to my idle sitting thinking, This WHY question has three sides to it. 

1. One which we our self will be eager to explain. For Example , when you succeed in any endeavour , the question asked is WHY you choose this path? of course this is most favourite question for everyone which we don't hesitate to answer also do not find it difficult to write pages about it even if no marks, padma bushan to be awarded.

2. This is the One ,which we our self need to find answers for improving our self. For Example, when you fail?, the question to be asked to our self and finding out the reasons for WHY you fail. it is to improve ourselves in overcoming those failures or at least for answering those eager and happy shitty people for our failure.

3. This is the category, Most of the time ,especially with me this category three letter word is annoying one. I call this  WHY THIS WHY . Here are the various situations , where , this category WHY is asked .

when you are jobless?

when you earn less than your relative?

when you not getting married?

when you not pregnant at correct time?

when you leave or change your job?

when not attending stupid relatives marriage?

when you do not have a boy friend ?

well, one has to be prepared in advance for answering this. At times ,you feel like shouting from top of mountain hoping for whole world to listen to your answers at one go instead of keep answering millions times individually.

Of course , There are many instances in my life too encountering this WHY THIS WHY . I like to mention those from my inner voice reply to those questions.

what is wrong taking arts course instead of engineering ? ( derivations and practicals drives me crazy)

what is wrong in pursuing economics degree being a bio maths student at school? ( though still no idea why i chose economics)

what is wrong in doing arts degree outside home town ? ( for exposure in studies is the answer but deeply want to get out of house and explore)

what is wrong in travelling alone for other city being a girl? ( though sounds brave , deeply it was scary initially)

what is wrong if I not bunk classes often ? ( who wanna miss class room fun with Indian economy teachers)

what is wrong being single ?( even I searching for the answer)

what is wrong if my English has Tamil accent? (like Emma Watson has British accent , its my version, who cares)

what is wrong being dark? ( what do you expect from a girl of tropical zone?)

What is wrong in not sitting for college placements? ( only I know even If I sit , I wont get placed)

what is wrong in pursuing your dream? ( dream dream come true soon as backlash for all these questions)

what is wrong in being 24 not getting or interested in marriage? ( MARRIAGE becomes the most hated word in English)

what is wrong not being so religious? ( no comments)

What is wrong not OK with group studies? ( will easily lose temper with stupid talks😡😡)

what is wrong sleeping extra hours ? ( heaven )

what is wrong being vegetarian for a month ? ( for diet sake what else😒)

AND MOST IMPORTANTLY 

what is wrong being fat ? ( annoying WHY , when other fat person asks this)

Out of this WHY THIS WHY questions experience and irritations, one thing is clear to me. When you are doing or being something different from normal , you are bound to face these question. I learnt that, Instead of  getting annoyed or irritated ,let me accept that this question is going to be a part of my whole life. That is because , I have my individuality and not group mentality and so there is no surprise getting these questions. So, Lets appreciate our  uniqueness whether it is stupidity or smartness? be on our own and create our own world and instead of sharing others world.  

LOVE YOURSELF 

FOLLOW YOUR HEART

DON'T GIVE DAMN TO THIS DAMN WORLD 

JUST ANSWERABLE TO YOURSELF AND PARENTS , NOBODY ELSE.

HAPPY BLOGGING

ELUX